EPISODE 22 - transition to adulthood with Julia Marsan
Our guest, Julia Marsan on a beach, smiling with cropped fair hair, dark sunglasses and a white top. The sea is in the background. Julia is framed by a bright pink boarder. The F**king Normal logo is in the top left and episode title is bottom right in yellow: ‘Episode 22: Transition to adulthood with Julia Marsan’.
In this episode, Rina and Lauren talk with Julia Marsan about her experience in supporting her disabled daughter Nicole in the transition to adulthood outside of her parents care and into supported living. In this thoughtful discussion, Julia shares her story of parenting two children with different additional needs, as well as some of the valuable lessons she has learnt along the way. They discuss Nicole's pathway through education and, later into supported living where she now lives "the best life, in her own way".
Julia shares with us how she fought to find the right solutions to both enable Nicole to live as independently as possible outside of the care of her parents, as well as the way to maintain balance in her and her husband's own lives. This episode also contains some great tips from Julia in terms of practical issues such as court appointed deputyships and ensuring for the right financial and health and welfare decisions are made with and for Nicole.
Content Warnings
Strong Language warning
Traumatic Birth
Child loss
Guest Biography
Julia Marsan is a mother, successfully had a long career as HR Director in many different sectors and although now retired, she is currently a trustee for a charity based in Oxfordshire that provides supported living, day opportunities and work placements for people with disabilities and autism.
Julia was inaugarated into the special needs space after her daughter Nicole was born in 1995 and diagnosed with Mowat-Wilson Syndrome. Her son Tom came three years later and was diagnosed with cerebral palsy.
Julia lives in Oxfordshire with her husband David, and along with charity work and visits and activities with their children, they both enjoy travelling the world in their retirement! David is currently undertaking a sailing adventure in the Pacific, raising money for Style Acre, the charity that supports Nicole.
Resource Links
Style Acre: www.styleacre.org.uk
Round the World Bear (David's Pacific Adventure): www.roundtheworldbear.com
Mowat-Wilson Syndrome Foundation: www.mowat-Wilson.org
Newman Trust: www.newmantrust.org
Useful List of Colleges for disabled 16+: https://natspec.org.uk/
